5 do’s and don’ts of dating, according to single ladies

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You get butterflies every time their name pops up onto your lock-screen, you’ve been chatting to each other for a while, maybe you see them at school or work. But now the time has come for a date, a first date. Not sure how to act or what to say? We’ve gathered single ladies and experienced daters, 20-year-old, Fashion Management student Roo, 22-year-old costume design student Rhiannon and 22-year-old creative direction for fashion student April; to create a definitive list of dating do’s and don’ts.

1.“Don’t use your phone”- April

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We are all glued to our screens most of the time and chances are you’re waiting for a text from your crush. On a first date they’re sat in front of you so there’s no need to be scrolling for memes or checking Instagram stories. Trust us, you’ll learn a lot more about your date and have a lot more fun if you put that phone away.

DISCLAIMER: Safety first! Whilst we encourage you to be fully into your date, safety is important. So do take two minutes to text someone to let them know where you are and that you’ve arrived.

2. “For first dates keep it light hearted and fun!” -Rhiannon

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First dates can be nerve-racking! By doing something fun like crazy golf or bowling, it keeps it light-hearted. And if there’s any awkward silences you have something to occupy them. Light-heartedness isn’t just in the date activity, keep the conversation light-hearted. Talk about interests, funny stories and general chit chat. Stay away from conversations about exes, politics and anything really serious. This is your first date; you’re supposed to enjoy it.

3. “Don’t hide who you are in fear of not impressing your date!” -Roo

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Your personality and who you are is what’s going to make someone fall in love with you someday, so don’t change yourself in fear of not impressing someone. If they don’t like it that’s their problem. You do you.

4. “They are probably as nervous as you are so give them some slack!” -Roo

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The first date jitters are something that gets to everyone. So chances are they’re just as nervous as you. Give them some slack, first dates aren’t totally representative of a person so give them some slack if they seem quiet or a little bit all over the place.

5. “Don’t take it personally if a second date isn’t on the cards, you just might not be compatible!” -Roo

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Sometimes it just doesn’t work out. It’s not you, it’s not them, you just may not be compatible. So don’t take it personally, the right person is out there for you and they’ll love you for who you are.